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The 8 Forces Behind All Lasting Relationships
Perhaps your marriage is on the verge of a divorce. Or you’re desperately hoping to avoid a separation that your husband or wife is insisting upon. You may be otherwise formally separated, in the process of separating, or living in two separate bedrooms (or houses) on...
Marriage In The Fastlane: The Truth About High-Achievers & Love
Perhaps your marriage is on the verge of a divorce. Or you’re desperately hoping to avoid a separation that your husband or wife is insisting upon. You may be otherwise formally separated, in the process of separating, or living in two separate bedrooms (or houses) on...
Rebuilding Self-Esteem After An Affair
Perhaps your marriage is on the verge of a divorce. Or you’re desperately hoping to avoid a separation that your husband or wife is insisting upon. You may be otherwise formally separated, in the process of separating, or living in two separate bedrooms (or houses) on...
Holiday Hacks For Your Relationship
Perhaps your marriage is on the verge of a divorce. Or you’re desperately hoping to avoid a separation that your husband or wife is insisting upon. You may be otherwise formally separated, in the process of separating, or living in two separate bedrooms (or houses) on...
Is Divorce The Right Answer?…
Perhaps your marriage is on the verge of a divorce. Or you’re desperately hoping to avoid a separation that your husband or wife is insisting upon. You may be otherwise formally separated, in the process of separating, or living in two separate bedrooms (or houses) on...
Where Do You Fall On The Couples Crisis Scale?
You know your relationship is in trouble…but have you wished you had a way to know just how detrimental the current relationship crisis was becoming? Have you wished you knew what was ‘okay’ to weather in a marriage and what scenarios were likely to lead to a...
Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? Will My Lover Cheat Again?
Once a cheater, always a cheater? as the saying goes? Is that really true? My clients, like a lot of people in long-term relationships, find themselves needing to cope and heal from their husband’s or wife’s affair at some point in their marriage if they really don’t...
Towards & Away: How To Better Understand Your Relationship Dynamic
Everyone who becomes aware of being in “a relationship in trouble” is likely intimately familiar with the pulling-in / pushing away that occurs between a couple. Here’s what tends to happen when people in a relationship perform the awkward ‘dance’ of pushing, then...
Relationship Blindspots (And How To Avoid Them)
Many relationship difficulties arise from what are called ‘Relationship blindspots.’ These blind spots can destroy your marriage. If you’ve ever heard the catch phrase, “you don’t KNOW what you DON’T know” — this is what is meant by a relationship blindspot. Blind...
7 Vulnerable Couple Types
Over the past 32 years, I've seen couples of all kinds—and while each one is a bit different, there are several signs that could make you and your partner more susceptible to an affair. Here are the seven couples types that are most vulnerable to affairs. 1. The...